Why do children with autism avoid eye contact?

Parents and caregivers often notice that children with autism may avoid eye contact. This behavior is not a sign of disinterest or defiance, it’s often linked to how individuals with autism process social and sensory information. For some children, eye contact can feel overwhelming or uncomfortable, making it harder to focus on communication. Others may find it distracting when they are trying to listen or express themselves.

Research suggests that avoiding eye contact is connected to differences in brain activity related to social interaction. Instead of interpreting it as a lack of connection, families and educators should understand it as a coping mechanism. By reducing pressure and encouraging communication in ways that feel natural, children can build confidence and gradually increase comfort with social engagement.

It’s important to remember that every child is unique. Some may improve eye contact with support, while others may communicate effectively without relying on it. The goal should always be fostering meaningful interaction, not forcing behaviors that cause distress.

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SOURCE:

https://www.reddit.com/r/aspergers/comments/14cbls4/researchers_found_reason_for_lack_of_eye_contact/

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3997654/

https://www.healthline.com/health/autism/autistic-eye-contact

https://www.autism-mmc.com/publications/eye-contact/

https://www.news-medical.net/news/20250425/Eye-contact-may-not-be-a-definitive-marker-of-autism-study-shows.aspx