
My Child Repeats Phrases, How Should I Respond? Effective Communication Tips
My child repeats phrases, how should I respond? Learn clear strategies to support communication and speech development in children.
When your child repeats phrases, it raises important questions about how to respond effectively. The key is understanding that repetitive speech, often called echolalia, is common in children, especially those with autism. Knowing how to respond can support their communication development.
Why Does My Child Repeat Phrases?
Repetitive speech happens as a way for children to process language, express needs, or cope with anxiety. For many autistic children, it’s a natural step in language acquisition and communication. Echolalia can be immediate (repeating right after hearing) or delayed (repeating after some time).
How Should I Respond?
1. Acknowledge and Redirect
Don’t reinforce repetitive speech by giving it too much attention. Instead, gently redirect your child to a relevant activity or question.
2. Use Simple, Clear Language
Speak slowly and clearly. Repeat the correct phrase or response calmly to model desired speech without forcing it.
3. Ask Structured Questions
Use yes/no questions or offer choices to encourage your child to respond differently. For example, “Do you want juice or milk?” can prompt specific answers.
4. Incorporate Visual Supports
Using pictures, gestures, or communication boards can help your child express needs beyond repeated phrases.
5. Patience and Consistency
Frequent patience and a consistent approach build communication skills over time.
Conclusion
Understanding “My child repeats phrases, how should I respond?” helps families support communication growth. Milestone Achievements offers personalized ABA therapy to help your child develop functional speech and social skills. Reach out today for a consultation and start your child’s journey toward better communication.
Sources:
- https://www.reddit.com/r/toddlers/comments/1e0174a/my_toddler_repeats_phrases_over_and_over_and_over/
- https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/symptoms/echolalia
- https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Echolalia
- https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK565908/

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Start ABA Services TodayFrequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
Is repetitive speech a sign of delayed language?
It can be part of language development, especially in autistic children. Echolalia often decreases with targeted support.
Should I stop my child from repeating phrases?
No, but redirect responses toward more functional communication.
When should I seek professional help?
If repetitive speech limits social interaction or functional communication, ask an ABA therapist or speech specialist for guidance.


