Exploring and Understanding the Autism Grief Cycle

When a child is diagnosed with autism, families often experience what’s called the autism grief cycle. This isn’t about grieving the child, it’s about processing expectations and adjusting to a new reality. Much like traditional grief, parents and caregivers may move through stages such as denial, anger, bargaining, sadness, and acceptance.

At first, some may struggle to believe the diagnosis or feel overwhelmed by uncertainty. Anger or frustration can follow, often directed at the situation or the challenges ahead. Bargaining may appear as searching for “quick fixes” or alternative explanations. Sadness can arise when parents reflect on the future they once imagined. Finally, acceptance brings peace and empowerment, recognizing that autism is not a limitation, but a different path filled with unique strengths and opportunities.

Understanding this cycle helps families normalize their emotions and move toward hope. With the right support, acceptance becomes the foundation for growth, resilience, and thriving.

At Milestone Achievements, we walk with families through every stage of this journey with the help of ABA therapy in Georgia.  

Learn how we can help your child reach their fullest potential. Contact us today!

SOURCE:

https://www.leicspart.nhs.uk/autism-space/emotional-wellbeing/bereavement-for-autistic-people/

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6926999/

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0882596324001131

https://iidc.indiana.edu/irca/articles/supporting-individuals-on-the-autism-spectrum-coping-with-grief-and-loss.html

https://www.mdpi.com/1660-4601/16/23/4821

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